FaceBook clean up...Would you try??

Last published post was in April, well,  despite of my resolutions and self commitment, I couldn’t keep it up, anyways, its never late to starting again…

I share with you all, what I did recently, it was Facebook friend list clean up…

Yes, sounds picky, isn’t it?? 

What I did is, one fine day, no actually night, when I was trying hard to sleep (which I mostly complain about, because I don’t get enough and regular sleep, and which of course results into health issues), but still despite of closing my eyes, was scrolling down my facebook page, reading unnecessary posts, reading those “Add me”, “ you look cute and sexy” kind of messages , ignoring pings from people in my friend list,  suddenly , I went to friends section and started removing people with whom I do not talk to, reply to their message, not interested in their posts, or life in that matter , all facebook pages that  I had liked once and now was suffering and sharing the pain and time wastage of their admin with me, all kinds of group which  I was a member of, and now which just bring me friend request with no mutual friends.

I cleaned it up that mess, I did it all !!!

I joined facebook, after passing out college, when I was waiting for my joining like any other engineering graduate , had so called – “Nothing to do” , but I would admit it was not the only excuse, I used to use orkut in college, but orkut’s era had ended by the time .

So, I joined it, and what I only posted was, lyrics of any cheesy hindi song ( which I still do ) , my college friends were also free like me, and I had 700+ friends, friend request you can easily imagine, and on each post used to get 100+ likes and so comments( not kidding), well until I got my joining, instead of doing something meaningful, that’s how I wasted my time.

Now, slowly, time has changed, but the amount of wastage of time I spend has not reduced, even in office, even if I don’t see it, I keep it open …

We all know the negative sides of it. People in your friend list, whom you know in real life, they are just stalking, or spying and enjoys your miserable life , get jealous when you go onsite, when your get married, when you had fight with your Bf/GF, and each and every thing, but won’t say ‘Hi’ in real life, won’t call, you, won’t help you and Bitch about you.

People, who would be online themselves would ping you and ask you why are YOU online? I mean, really??  And most ridiculous is, being an Indian girl, you should not be online when its dark.
People who call themselves so called open minded , would except you to be online, and then would propose you, if you don’t accept or talk, you are a BITCH.

I mean, dude, being online at 2 am in the morning on facebook, doesn’t mean girl is “Available” for you !!
Apart from those national issues, recently happened, with face book, being listed to NYC, science research about facebook  depressions, mark zukberg’s earning and all, here is my tiny , simple issue, which affects my life, and that IS important, so now I get 1-2- sensible post, news within 3—4 hours, not more than 5 people online at a time, and whom I can happily ping and ask about life, and share my stuff.

I made it simple, no body would bother about my relationship status, I won’t get likes on my profile pic, won’t get comments, won’t come to know how many girls from my college and school got married and with whom, where did they go for honeymoon,  but may be I shall get a life and sound sleep.

Try it…

Love ,
Priyam